If its a chore, why get in a relationship?

> I'm surprised how many people view inherit parts of relationships as tedious chores and things they have to "just go through with". For women it's usually sex, for men it's more often romance, dates and just spending quality time together.

Ehh, I don't think most men considered spending quality time together or even dates a chore, Romance maybe but because that can actually be a chore. Have you seen how these ladies talk about their love languages and if you fail to meet it, they dry up like a ghost in the desert.

In my experience, I find women largely are unaware of their own romantic/sexual requirements and push all the responsibilities and requirements of maintaining it onto the man.

I think this, pushing all romantic/sexual requirements onto their male partner, is as twisted as men pushing all of their emotional and social requirements onto their female partner.

Both are pretty twisted and show a lack of maturity.